I just had an online encounter with an in-state "boy" who says he's submissive and interested in bondage. Apparently, as far as he's concerned, that's all he should have to say for me to completely fawn over him, offer him whatever he wants, and be the "bondage service"
described in the last post.
He wants to be tied up, therefore, I, as someone who's not in college and hot like him, should just ignore what I want and do whatever he wants. Even if he doesn't know what that is. And asking what it might be is "rude" on my part, he said.
No setting limits ahead of time but vetoing everything as it happens? That's not submitting at all, I told him, and "most doms, including me, aren't interested in that."
Him: congrats, but that doesnt help someone like me
Me: what does?
Me: and I don't need the "congrats" snark - I'm taking the time to try to explain some of the concepts you've asked about
Him: fuck you!! Im through
Me: good luck to you
God save the BDSM world from subs who think they're doing people favors by thinking about submitting.
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